As days pass by, we all grow, understand more and hopefully learn from the past. We all encounter difficult situations in our life time and some how we get over them. We supposed to learn and move on to a better future, something that can make us happy – we all, human beings are in the search of happiness, pursuit of fulfillment; it might be that we don’t achieve it but we are always on our way to it.
We get into relationships, thinking that this person, right in front of us that moment is our soul mate; our other half; our everything and whole world. Then the moment comes where we grow apart, and this person is no longer fitting in our dream… We keep the respect, the memories and most probably the partial love but he is no longer our other half… We do not want to admit it because we relay on this person for our happiness, fulfillment and future plans and so it is hard to let go with out a fight, with out tears and confusion… But we must understand that happiness and fulfillment cannot come from another person, we must understand that all these has to come from with in us and if it does not then it is fake and wont last for enough time.
A soul mate is not responsible for our happiness…A soul mate is the one who is willing to share with us OUR happiness. A soul mate is the one that even when we are not happy he is there and we don’t feel like we need to talk too much or explain and give excuses. He will be the person who you look into his/her eyes and you find comfort with out searching for it. He will be the person who gives you a hand and walks besides you, not necessarily to pull you up but just to give you support to pull yourself up, because he knows that it has to come from with in you.